Episode 8

If Loneliness is a Lover, Then What?

with Meenadchi


About this episode

In this episode, Rev Syd is joined by somatic healing practitioner and author Meenadchi, for a multifaceted wander through the many shapes of love. Framed by Thich Nhat Hanh’s teaching that love is a practice and Nizar Qabbani’s poem, Entering the Sea, they discuss inviting loneliness in, rather than rejecting it. Syd shares how divorce revealed a pattern of chasing love for validation and how loneliness can become a place to rest, not an escape. The conversation leads them both to reflect on loneliness within relationships, attachment and spaciousness, recognizing loneliness across the lifespan, and reimagining childhood solitude as companionship. They consider love appearing in rupture-and-repair, pattern breaks, shared honesty about loneliness, intimacy beyond romance, spiritual trust, religious trauma, and end by dreaming into possible ways to be with our loneliness, in community, together.


About Meenadchi 

Meenadchi (she/her) is a somatic healing practitioner, TEDx speaker, and communications word-nerd whose work centers social change and embodied transformation. Her work supports socially conscious organisations and changemakers in developing clear and intentional communication that prioritises the intuitive wisdom of our bodies along with our ability to build bridges across difference with empathy and dignity. She is the author of Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication (2019) and a faculty member with the Trauma of Money. 

Connect with Meenadchi

Website: http://meenadchi.com

IG: http://instagram.com/with.meenadchi/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/meenadchi/